...Thief of Joy...

A few seasons back, an innocuous chat with a Parent about their 14 year olds hair color, fashion sense and current interests and hobbies, all that was at the time considered perhaps a bit “out of the mainstream” was concluded with the Parent saying, “We’re proud that she’s finding herself and she’s her own person!”

A few minutes later, in the same discussion with the same parent, she expressed concern that her daughter “…wasn’t hitting the ball like Sarah. What’s wrong with her?”

We are comfortable when our children “go their own way” during social and educational situations, sometimes even proud. Some kids are put into AP classes while for others it might be necessary to take some remedial courses to shore up skills. Some students are held back a grade for emotional and education reasons. This isn’t frowned upon, it’s part of figuring out what is best for your child, helping them become a well adjusted and contributing member of society; something most every Parent subscribes to.

But when we throw athletics into the arena, those sentiments vanish quickly. Why isn’t my child as fast as hers? Why can’t my Son run like his? Why isn’t her jump shot consistent like her teammates?

The answer is the same one for every other aspect of their lives. Kids are different! They grow, mature and learn and process at different speeds and their engagement levels vary wildly.

A prime thought comes from T.J. Buchanan, the Director of Sport Development for USA Lacrosse and his ideas which are succinct and may cause some Parental arrhythmia. “There is no such thing as an elite 8-year-old lacrosse player. There are no high-performance 10-year-old lacrosse players. Some coaches may tell you different. Parents may tell you different. But what they are commonly mistaking for ‘elite’ or ‘high-performance’ is really just a young athlete who is simply more physically gifted at that given point in time, compared to their peers.” 

Some Coaches may also see their athletes at all the same level and muse, “I taught this to everyone but Jenny was the only one that didn’t get it!” Our first assumption is that either Jenny wasn’t listening, doesn’t like us as a coach or just doesn’t care when in fact, probably none of those are true.

Those 11’s and 12’s coaches see this learning variance more than 16’s and 18’s coaches, but it’s prevalent throughout sports- little league to the Majors. While it might be those kids haven’t gotten to the point of learning a skill or more importantly being able to execute that skill, a couple of other factors could be weighing in as well.

Perhaps the coach’s teaching technique leaves a lot to be desired. Volleyball is a game of speed, power, movement and most of all decision making. If your coach incorporates none of these into a practice plan, chances are those athletes will be behind other athletes of the same age.

Sometimes a child is asked to play ‘up’ on a higher age team because of their size or abilities. But just because they are playing on an older team, they are still thousands of volleyball touches behind. They are thousands of opportunities to read the ball coming over the net behind. They are still thousands of plays, on the other side of the net, behind where they would be learning and moving and anticipating. These thousands of touches aren’t ‘made up’ in a season, that player will have to learn faster in less touches, opportunities and plays. That alone can be overwhelming and a burden on athletes we are trying to train into relaxing and finding their ‘zones’ at the higher levels of our sport.

This need to compare is built into our social fabric daily. Social media has us chasing the famous and fit, comparing ourselves to their looks and lifestyles. We compare our lot in life with others of similar economic status and wonder why we can’t afford what our neighbors have. We compare our kids to their kids, our jobs to their jobs, our teams to their teams, etc. It’s built into our minds and on the positive end, it can help inspire us to do things maybe we didn’t think possible before. On the negative end, it can cause depression and a toxic self worth. 

Most child psychologists agree that it’s less than ideal and can be downright harmful for Parents to compare their own children but again, athletics makes these comparisons seem routine. “Your sister was able to serve over the net at 11 years old, why can’t you?”

Parents may be a root cause of this comparison conundrum. Yale Psychologist Marc Brackett, the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence (EI) and the author of “Permission to Feel” researched college students on their EI and found in his data that college students reported feeling “stressed and anxious” as well as tired, bored and lonely. But when he unpacked the underlying emotions, one stood above all and was the root cause of the others: Envy. Envy of other students, grades and social status.

So how as Parents and Coaches can we get out of this compare and contrast mindset? National Team player Madi Kingdon, in an interview on the wonderful new podcast, “I Think We’re Good Here” had this to say about comparing herself to others.

“For me, I’m training with the best people in the world. If I start comparing myself to the person on my left or my right, I think that’s a recipe for disaster.” Kingdon says. “When I first got to the (USA) gym, I was like okay, that’s Jordan Larson…she’s pretty good, ya know? It’s like a snowball. So I think over time, it’s gotten to a point where I’m competing against myself.” 

“If I’m not making a roster, okay, look at the other outside hitters that are in front of me on this roster- they’re phenomenal. I mean, stats don’t lie- they have good stats, mine could be better and I’m fully aware of that and just realizing I have so much room to grow.” Madi adds, “People ask me ‘do you want to play volleyball anymore’ and I’m like yea, I have so much room to get better! I have so much work I want to do and I’m not near the player I want to be. So I realize that there’s room for potential and it’s more competing against myself than competing against other people who are in the gym because I think that would probably make you go crazy. It’s not easy!”

The phrase is overused a lot but in this instance, not used enough: Be the best version of yourself. That’s all that can be asked of you.

As an athlete, don’t worry about Coaches and Parents comparing you to other athletes; it’s ill conceived and a distraction.

As a Coach, instead of comparing, start coaching better. Understand that every athlete on your team has strengths and weaknesses and finding those strengths for the betterment of both player and team is a full time job in itself. There is no time to compare.

And Parents, let’s stop limiting your athlete’s growth and potential by corralling them into your ill fitting idea of what they should be and who you have compared them to and celebrate who they are, what they bring to the team and how they can best challenge themselves to improve.

Theodore Roosevelt’s wisdom and pith come across in his fitting mic drop;

“Comparison is the thief of joy.”

Where are we?

“Sports do not build character. They reveal it.” – Heywood Broun.

If sports are revealing character, we might be in trouble.

The Houston Astros spent their 2017 World Series Championship season cheating. They stole pitching signs and got the information to their hitters which gave them a distinct advantage over teams ‘playing by the rules.’ But they won. Their end justified their means. “If you ain’t cheating, you ain’t trying.” Is a quote credited to many coaches and athletes, but in this case, and many others like it, is winning the only thing that matters? 

Lance Armstrong. Deflate-gate. The 1919 Black Sox scandal. Triple Crown winning thoroughbred Justify. Steroid use in baseball, football, basketball. Olympic doping across the spectrum of sports. College athletics rife with recruiting violations. Judges and officials bought off and bribed. Point shaving, sexual abuse by coaches and staff, emotional abuse by same. Daily…DAILY, sports pages are littered with those that chose the crooked road for the glory and probably, the profit, of the win.

New York Times author David Waldstein wrote about the rampant cheating going on in the chess world recently.

“In chess, players at live tournaments are now required to leave their phones behind and pass through metal detectors before entering the playing area. Some have even been asked to remove clothing and been searched. And some tournaments now put players behind one-way mirrors to limit visual communication.”

Chess?

Just a few weeks ago, Formula E driver Daniel Abt was fired from his racing team for having a “ringer” drive for him in a video game contest.

A VIDEO GAME???

Where are we?

The first thing to come to grips with is that while most professional and college sports may be woven into our daily lives, it is entertainment. During this lockdown, no one has died because the NBA or the NHL have suspended their seasons. No one is suffering except those that make money off of these enterprises including, of course, the athletes themselves.

The Olympics have been delayed a year but most of the athletes now are professionals and can make money at other events and tournaments. The days of amateurism in sports are in the rear view mirror.

Even the worldwide leader in sports, ESPN, has resorted to pre-packaged documentaries on Michael Jordan and Lance Armstrong to go along with Korean baseball, axe throwing, stone skipping and sign spinning to keep the lights on.

But there is something lost in all of this.

Somewhere in Houston, there are young little leaguers who look up to their beloved Astros. Maybe they don’t understand the idea that their heroes cheated to win.

Or sadly, maybe they do.

Where are we?

At youth soccer games, line ups are checked against birth certificates to ensure no one is older than they are supposed to be. Even in our Arizona Region tournaments, teams are required to turn in birth certificates which are matched against rosters which are presented at the beginning of each tournament to ensure everyone is playing by the rules. 

Parents will hold their kids back a year in middle school to give them a year advantage in growth and strength when playing their sport in high school. Some parents will lie about their residence so their child can go to a different school with a better sports program. Some still are given "incentives" to come to a private or charter school as super teams are built to roll over their public school competition. 

The Arizona Interscholastic Association, the NCAA, the NAIA- they face daily complaints about teams bending the rules, circumventing policy and violating standards, all for the chance to hold the golden trophy.

We are now required to think the least of people because the will to win is so glacial.

We hand out sportsmanship awards and call people out for their integrity because, sadly, there is so little to go around. My grandson recently got an award from his principal because he owned up to talking in class when another boy was blamed. While we were all very proud of him, the question arose; shouldn’t this just be the normal?

We have lost the honor of competing in sports. Out of one side or our mouths, we talk about how much we can learn from adversity and how losing teaches us so much and out the other side, we blame everyone when we lose, accusing the other team of cheating or the officials for being biased. We make every game or match the end all, life or death moment. We give up on our teams that don’t perform the way we need them to for the quick social media prompts of our city's Professional supremacy! An NBA team that starts 1-7 is likely a disaster requiring a coaching change, a trade, a new owner; some kind of reboot. It’s unacceptable.

Maybe the first thing we need to tell our younger athletes is the truth; college, professional and yes, even a lot of high school sports are driven by $$! It’s not so much about integrity and doing and being your best, it’s about results. Even in youth sports, without the prize money at the end of the tournament, we are as a nation transfixed by the result. Parents, coaches and now, even the kids are conditioned to ask, “Where did we finish?” “What place did we come in?” “Did we do better than…?”

Where are we?

Coaches, this is a call to action. When you listen to the top coaches in any sport, much of their conversation is about character and culture. Is yours about winning first? Can we get back to developing wonderful human beings who can use youth sports as a vehicle toward growth, independence, integrity, self esteem, teamwork, empathy, honor and class? 

And by the way, aren't these the qualities that help WIN in the long run anyway?

Parents, this is a call to action. What are you emphasizing in your son or daughter’s athletic career? Is it the work and preparation they are putting in to give themselves the best chance to succeed? Is it the effort they put in on the court or field AND the effort they put in off it, to be the best teammate and coachable athlete they can be? Or is the first thing we ask, “Did you win?”

Pick a profession and chances are very high there are cheaters in that profession. Not just sports, in all areas of life. Our young men and women will learn this in time; usually the hard way. They will be tricked or scammed or worse yet, let down by someone they looked up to as a mentor or role model. As coaches and parents, we should be helping them to understand it doesn’t have to be this way.

There are so many remarkable coaches, parents, club directors, youth sports officials, professional athletes, collegiate athletes and people associated with sports that can help us as a divining rod toward integrity and morals. But when they fall from grace, it’s just as important to have those conversations about why.

It’s very unlikely this diatribe will cause many of us to think differently or act accordingly but let’s leave it with this thought.

If you are coaching your son or daughter, would you be okay with them seeing you cheat? If you owned the Houston Astros and your 12 year old son saw the news that the coach and players you hired cheated to win, and tarnished one of the best moments of his young life, what do you now tell him? If you came home and your wife asked you why you were home early, could you look her in the eye and tell her you were caught cheating, giving one team an advantage over another as an official for an envelope of cash?

The Houston Astros, despite admitting to cheating, firing many that were responsible and apologizing way after the fact, are STILL the 2017 World Series Champions. For them, their end sadly justified their means. How refreshing would it have been if the owner of the Astros had given the trophy, the money and the designation as champions BACK to Major League Baseball and said we don’t deserve this, we acted in a manner that is not representative of the behavior we aspire to be as professional baseball players?

We can help take youth sports back or we can recede into the sediment of complacency, deniability and deflection. We can make youth sports a vehicle to once again reveal character when we see it shining, or extinguish that flame before it has a chance to light our way and warm our hearts.

The question is, where are we?

The Samurai, the Gamer and the Birthday Boy

You can blame David Letterman perhaps. His Top Ten lists were a staple of his quirky comedy and lead to books, videos and oft imitated staples of our society. While some can be inane and self promoting, some can be useful in our lifelong endeavor to be better at our craft. 

To that end, please partake in these three distinctive lists drawn from three random sources, all offering up nuggets of wisdom for coaches winding their way through the path. 

Musashi 

A mere 660 miles southeast from the site of the (now) 2021 summer Olympics is a small deserted island that is only accessible by boat. It’s called Ganryujima and it is home to one of the most famous statues in the history of Japanese sword art, also more commonly referred to by its age of the culture, the Samurai. 

The master was Miyamoto Musashi, (1584-1645). In this statue, he is battling his final duel, which he wins when he brings his wooden sword made from the oar of a boat down upon his foe just seconds before he was to be slashed. 

Musashi finished his life with a perfect 61-0 record in duels and is widely considered the greatest Samurai of all time. At the end of his life, he wrote a book called the Five Rings where he diligently records his 21 Rules of Life. 

In his disciplined world of life and death struggles, Musashi would never fall in love, never eat good food and never have possessions that weren’t useful. But some of these rules resonate with the ideas that we as coaches both need and should help disseminate toward our athletes. 

1. Accept everything just the way it is. 

3. Do not, under any circumstances, depend on a partial feeling. 

4. Think lightly of yourself and deeply of the world. 

6. Do not regret what you have done. 

7. Never be jealous. 

9. Resentment and complaint are appropriate neither for oneself or others. 

21. Never stray from the way. 

While we are not in literal life and death struggles as we face off across the net from another team, Musashi’s rules do remind us that some principles are forever and can help us through our own days of obstacles and help guide our athletes through their life as well.

Gamers 

Watch a player throw themselves into the stands for a loose ball and they are described as “gamers.” But in the 1970’s and 80’s this moniker hbegan to hold a different meaning. Pong turned into Galaga which morphed into the Brother's Mario into the next generation of home entertainment. 

James Paul Gee is considered the Godfather of “Game based learning.” In other words, he sees video games as great learning and teaching methods and recently came out with a list of the 16 principles of good game based learning. While this list has an obvious bias toward video games, some of his principles could be plucked from Coaching handbooks and webinars quite easily. 

1. Players build a sense of identity throughout the video game, either through direct input or an on-screen character they inherit. 

2. Communication occurs between the player and the game.

4. Failing in a game holds few consequences in comparison to real life, empowering players to take risks. 

6. Players have control over the gaming environment. 

7. The gaming environment contains problems that naturally lead into one another, allowing a player's mastery to grow and evolve. 

8. Games offer a problem that challenges students assumed expertise. 

9. Players receive information as they need it, not before, which teaches them patience and perseverance and improves critical thinking abilities. 

11. The game should frustrate the student enough to challenge them but be easy enough that they believe and can overcome the problems faced. 

13. Games force players to expand their situational knowledge and consider courses of action other than linear ones. 

15. In multi player environments, players have different skills, forcing them to rely on each other- a needed soft skill for students. 

16. Competency occurs through taking action in the game, reversing the typical model in which students are required to learn before being allowed to act. 

According to the Entertainment Software Association, 3 out of 4 households have a gamer under their roof and 65% of American adults play video games. While the numbers for Youth Sports continue to disappoint, this faction of society is blooming. Perhaps Gee’s list can help us understand how to better coach this generation and help kids blend the on court with the online. 

A 68th Birthday 

Kevin Kelley turned 68 last month. The founding executive editor of Wired magazine who adds author, photographer, conservationist and other wide ranging interests to his resume’, jotted down his 68 Bits of Unsolicited Advice as a birthday present to all of us. 

As you will see, much of his advice would be considered chapter and verse for coaching our chosen sport. 

· Learn how to learn from those you disagree with, or even offend you. See if you can find the truth in what they believe.

· Being enthusiastic is worth 25 IQ points. 

· Being able to listen well is a superpower. While listening to someone you love keep asking them “is there more?” until there is no more. 

· Gratitude will unlock all other virtues and is something you can get better at. 

· Pros are just amateurs who know how to gracefully recover from their mistakes. 

· Don’t be the smartest person in the room. Hangout with, and learn from, people smarter than yourself. Even better, find smart people who will disagree with you. 

· The purpose of a habit is to remove that action from self negotiation. You no longer expend energy deciding whether to do it. You just do it. Good habits can range from telling the truth to flossing. 

· Promptness is a sign of respect. 

· The more you are interested in others, the more interesting they find you. To be interesting be interested. 

· To make mistakes is human. To own your mistakes is divine. Nothing elevates a person higher than quickly admitting and taking personal responsibility for the mistakes you make and then fixing them fairly. If you mess up, fess up. It’s astounding how powerful this ownership is. 

· You can obsess about serving your customers/audience/clients or you can obsess about beating the competition. Both work, but of the two, obsessing about your customers will take you further. 

· Separate the processes of creation from improving. You can’t write and edit, or sculpt and polish, or make and analyze at the same time. If you do, the editor stops the creator. While you invent, don’t select. While you sketch, don’t inspect. While you write the first draft, don’t reflect. At the start, the creator mind must be unleashed from judgment.

· If you are not falling down occasionally, you are just coasting. 

· There is no limit on better. Talent is distributed unfairly, but there is no limit on how much we can improve with what we start with. 

· When crisis and disaster strike, don’t waste them. No problem, no progress. 

· Acquiring things will rarely bring you deep satisfaction. But acquiring experiences will. 

· How to apologize: Quickly, specifically, sincerely. 

As with any venture in life, there are clues and ideas that surround us, now more than ever. Sometimes they aren’t in places we would expect and we have to secure the miners helmet to find nuggets of wisdom, but they are out there. 

If you have some you would like to share, please e mail us at outreach@azregionvolleyball.

The Poetry of Reality...

April 16, 2020. “The American Medical Association (AMA) believes decisions about public health should be made based on science, evidence and data.” 

April 29, 2020. “Across the country, governors have been forming pacts.Those leaders are highlighting the importance of using science and advice from health officials rather than politics to choose when to reopen the economy.”

April 16, 2020. “The health and welfare of more than 300 million Americans deserves more than political 'instinct.' Physicians and scientists are taught to base all decisions on foundational rigorous scientific principles, the best evidence available and the expertise of medical and public health professionals.”

April 13, 2020. “In separate announcements, the governors said they've agreed to let science, not politics, determine when to lift social and business restrictions.”

April 12, 2020. “Any plan to reopen society MUST be driven by data and experts, not opinion and politics.”

April 15, 2020. “Along with expanding testing and tracing, governors across the country are highlighting the importance of using science and advice from health officials rather than politics to choose when to reopen the economy.”

April 2, 2020. “The COVID-19 pandemic raises our awareness of the importance of science, both in research and international cooperation.”

March 18, 2020. “In a recent column (“I’m skeptical about climate alarmism, but I take coronavirus fears seriously,” Ideas, March 15), Jeff Jacoby sought to reconcile his longstanding rejection of the wisdom of scientific expertise when it comes to climate with his embrace of such expertise when it comes to the coronavirus.”

In the days, weeks and months that follow, as our cities and countries reawaken to a new world, we can take solace in the fact that maybe the idea of science has reentered our global conversation. 

Science has been trivialized by politics, polarizing rancor and mistrust in recent years because the findings didn't parallel the wants of those dismissing it.

But now it is life threatening. People have reengaged with science. They have dismissed claims of quick cures and baseless over the counter ideas to stay healthy. This remerging of science into our daily lives should be used not just to thwart a pandemic knocking at our doors. It should be used for daily decisions and future discussion.

Many of you have heard the phrase "science based coaching" and maybe you have embraced it or maybe you are still on the fence. 

But what this glacially important time in our history has shown us is that the frauds and hucksters trying to make money at the expense of public fear and confusion cannot be taken seriously if science is your basis of information.

As a coach, your principles should be rooted in science, not conjecture or opinion. Find those principles based in science and watch your teams learn more with better retention and transfer and more engagement. 

Let us know if you need information to help you with these decisions. We can point you in the right direction. In the meantime, check out the USAVed website for some insightful science based videos on how our top athletes are trained. 

The wonderful Richard Dawkins quote says it all. "Science is the poetry of reality."

Tribology's secret weapon...

You don’t have to be a tribologist to understand it.

But you are affected by it every day whether you know it or not. And now might be a good time to think about how you can use it to YOUR advantage!

A tribologist is someone who studies the science and engineering of interacting surfaces in relative motion. Included in that is the science of friction.

We aren’t talking about friction in the sense of two objects creating heat or how tires grip the road. We are talking about the theory and the uses of just such an idea.

One such company that has embraced the idea of LESS friction is Amazon. It was originally called “Cadabara” but when a lawyer misquoted it as “cadaver” the founder Jeff Bezos went with the less confused Amazon. 

When it started, it was online books, compact discs, computer software and hardware and videos. Part of the idea was to take the friction out of buying these categories. Bookstores often had thousands of books in shelves all over the store and after a drive, 20 minutes searching and then finally asking a clerk who told you they were out of stock, you had spent 45 minutes to an hour trying to buy this book. Amazon took the friction out. Go online, find the book, click it, check out and in 2 minutes the book was coming to your door. 

 In 1997, Amazon’s stock opened at $18 a share. Fast forward 23 years later, the stock is at over $2,400 per share (as of press time). Most all of us now shop on Amazon for almost everything including groceries, clothes, hardware, software and of course, books. One of the big reasons for the success of Bezos’ company is his ability to take the friction out of sales. Find it, one click and it’s on the way to your home. No hurdles, no travel, no friction. 

This idea can also work in reverse. If you are one that wants to stop eating oreos at night before bed, apply some friction and make it harder for yourself. Don’t buy them or have them in your home so if you want them you will have to go to the store before bed, an idea after a long day that is very unappetizing.

If you are using too much social media, apply some friction. Take the password memory off of your phone so every time you sign into a website you have to put the e mail and password in…every time. After a while, studies show, you will not use that app as much if at all.

Our society is so frictionless we rarely even notice. Drive thrus are a way for restaurants and coffee shops to get you to order from them with very little friction: you need not leave your car, it’s put into your hand and now you can pay with the swipe of your cell phone instead of carrying cash or a credit card. Friction free! 

Our daily clicks eliminate friction. Online payments, watching movies or t.v. series with one click, almost any subject in academia is a click of your laptop, register to vote online, talk to friends across the globe, conduct business, it’s all a keyboard away!

So how does this affect us as coaches? How can we utilize the idea of eliminating friction into our Coaching? Dr. Joe Baker says, “Coaches need to stop seeing themselves as transmitters of information and start seeing themselves as architects of the optimal learning environment.” What does that friction free optimal learning environment look like?

Maybe on a visual level, there is a white board with the practice written on it including player names or numbers onto every drill. The coach takes the friction out of every drill and transition to another one by naming the drills so the players recognize them and assigning the players their positions to eliminate the friction and wasting of time. 

On a feedback level, long drawn out explanations will lead to a loss of attention and then the inevitable friction of trying to get that engagement back. Quick cues, little to no extra feedback, one focus and especially not stopping drills to talk to just one player about their improvement.

How can a coach get conditioning into their practice with less friction? Including it into the practice by sprinting to positions, sprinting to shag the balls and sprinting to grab water is an easy start. And then just playing the game itself, which is the best way to get into volleyball shape; play volleyball!

On a learning level however, friction can be a decisive element in whether a player retains and transfers what they learn or not. A drill with just one skill done over and over and over, called a “blocked” drill may disengage an older athlete from what they are doing and now the drill becomes a waste of time for both athlete and coach: no learning is accomplished.

But take that drill and give it extra reps at different skills, add scoring, make it game like and now, with lots of friction applied, the athlete must focus more on what they are doing thus learning at a much higher and faster rate than before. In this instance, friction is a welcome addition to practice.

What other ideas can you think of to utilize friction in your practices, in your season? Not just for you but for your athletes, parents and Club Director or Athletic Director?

There is efficiency to the idea of less friction which saves  wasted time,  spawns practices that move with pace and are able to accomplish more and athletes that stay engaged. The idea of adding friction can help athletes stay involved mentally and physically, reach beyond themselves and retain and transfer what they have learned in practice much more effectively.

You don’t need to be a tribologist to understand the idea of friction, just look around. How did you read this blog? In the mail? Probably not.

Enjoy the frictionless life we lead, use that extra time wisely and take that extra time to make yourself the best coach you can be.

It’s an investment that will never be lost.

Closed for Maintenence...

Take a few minutes.

Relax.

Reflect and react.

Closed for Maintenence

"You haven't taught them..."

There are some coaching principles that we have shared with you over the years of this blog. Some of them might be contrary to what you have learned from past coaches, how you were trained or what your team may have won with and so you discount it for obvious reasons.

But there is one of these coaching principles that is woven into our everyday lives. So much so that we don’t even think about it BUT we use and rely on it every day.

The idea of game like!

My friend Keaton is a pilot in training. He is mid 20’s and loves to travel which has lead to his journey into flight school and soon, perhaps, flying your family on your next vacation. How confident would you be if the only thing Keaton had used in his training was a simulator and had never flown an actual plane before? 

Even Keaton wouldn’t be comfortable with this although it would be much cheaper and less school time for him! "Simulators are a great way to train for flying, however they are not completely sufficient for learning to fly. Even with a full motion simulator, some things just don't substitute for the real thing. Using a standard flight school simulator like a Redbird and even with the full motion on, it is very hard to simulate the feel of a plane bouncing around in updrafts and downdrafts and creating that turbulent feel. The biggest issue probably comes from the layout of the cockpit. In your standard simulator, buttons, levers and switches are in very different locations compared to the actual flight deck of the aircraft. Often times I find myself searching for a button and realize it's not where I think it is and that throws me off a little bit. In my opinion, the best way to simulate flying an aircraft is to actually fly an aircraft."

Bruce Lee was a revered martial artist having learned and even invented different disciplines. But even this iconic master understood the benefits of game like training. “Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.” 

He also punctuated the idea with this quote about un-game like training. “Too much horsing around with unrealistic stances and classic forms and rituals is just too artificial and mechanical, and doesn't really prepare the student for actual combat. A guy could get clobbered while getting into this classical mess. Classical methods like these, which I consider a form of paralysis, only solidify and constrain what was once fluid. Their practitioners are merely blindly rehearsing routines and stunts that will lead nowhere.”

Let’s take this to our everyday lives. Living in Phoenix in August, how comfortable are you calling up an air conditioning company who will send a repair person out that has ordered “Air Conditioning and Refrigeration Repair” by Roger Fischer from Amazon, all 352 pages, as their primary means of experience?

How reliable is the driver next to you on the 202 that has only read the Arizona driver’s manual and jumped behind the wheel? How satisfied will you be when you leave the Starbucks, drink in hand, made by someone who had only read the drink manual? How much will you pay to see the band that has learned how to read music but never picked up an instrument?

These are silly inclinations but it goes to the fundamental truth, or in this case, coaching principle. We get good at what we do.

Here is where we tend to go into our separate corners; the Blocked army vs. the Random army. It has to be one or the other of course because Coaching is ONLY black and white. Right? 

Of course not and we are not suggesting that you throw a bunch of 9 year olds out on the court with a ball and say play and expect much productive to happen! What we are saying is quite simply this: Your players will learn more about playing the game of volleyball if they train by playing the game of volleyball. (You can insert ANY sport in place of volleyball or for that matter, almost any skill!)

There is one other ancillary benefit to training more game like. Players love to play! If you think I’m wrong, then let me ask those of you who play on an Adult team in our Region or beyond. How many practices did you have this season? How many drills did you run? 

We love to PLAY this game. Players will learn more, be more engaged and will be able to train more WITHOUT a coach and learn intrinsic lessons that will make them better. 

One of the tragic parts of being in Coaching Education is when we see nodding heads in our IMPACT or CAP classes and then we head to the gyms to see our wonderful enlightenment being left in the manuals.

The greatest teacher probably in the history of USA Volleyball, Director of Sports Development John Kessel still struggles with this as he talked about recently on the Coach Your Brains Out podcast. “I’m still learning because I’ll do what I think is a pretty good clinic and if I come back and watch them a week later and it’s like, ‘Did you go to the clinic?’ I haven’t seen any change! So my biggest weakness is still as a teacher. As (John) Wooden says, ‘You haven’t taught them if they haven’t learned,’ and I’m saying learning is happening because they change or they do it more effectively.” t taught them..."

So we want to end this with one simple request for your next practice, something that is easy to do and a start toward a game like practice. Everything comes from over the net. Passing drills, games, etc. Every ball comes from over the net to a player. Put this into your next practice plan and you are well on your way.

Training in reality is a staple to the success of whatever we choose to do. Very few people on the planet can pick up three balls and start juggling or put on a pair of ice skates and not fall a few times. We learn by doing, by failing, by going again. Let’s play volleyball more, not just for the good of our teams but for the good of our sport!